Judgement

I've been thinking about how we judge people... without knowing them, without knowing what's going on. Just like people judged, and probably still judge me for leaving my husband. Even some of my own family. The thing is... no one really knows what happened. I doubt my ex husband knows what the final straw was …

Returning to work 

I really don't want to go back to work and I'm not due back until February but financially we just can't afford for me to not work. If I have to then I don't want to go back full time, we don't have anyone to watch our son and childcare isn't available in our area …

My essentials

Every parent is different, and what works for one may not work for another. Here are my essentials and what has worked well for me. NB: I have not been asked, paid, or given free products or anything like that to do this post. Everything listed is what I have actually bought and used. My …

Baby Sleep

I remember when my bubs would only go to sleep laying on my chest. I spent endless hours laying on the couch watching Netflix with him asleep on my chest, longing for the day he would sleep in his bassinet so I could get things done. It feels like a long time ago, a distant …

A day in the life

A day in the life... This was a day we had no plans and I wrote down everything before getting sick of keeping track and gave up :). 3am: bubs starts grizzling, put his dummy in 3:30am: bubs crying 3:31am: giving bubs a bottle 3:45am: change bubs nappy 3:47am: finish giving bubs bottle 3:50am: finally …

Litte moments

There are moments like right now where I can't help but smile and be filled with love. My son is fast asleep laying on my chest/tummy. Mouth open and occasionally pulling funny facial expressions. But in the last day overwhelming sadness I guess you could call it has struck me out of no where and …